Pls advice, i married last year! honestly i dont really love my wife,?

We blessed 1 baby girl, i live and work abroad and i discovered that the real attitude of my wife is too bad, she asking always about monry specially with my big remittances if i cannot sent a big amount she cursed me to death, b'coz of that i never miss my wife! shall i file divorced ??Pls advice, i married last year! honestly i dont really love my wife,?
whats in your own heart, no one can really advise you here, its how you feelPls advice, i married last year! honestly i dont really love my wife,?
My husband was in this situation with his first wife, it took him 4 years to finally give in and divorce her. He tried to make it work but she didn't want to work on the marriage. My husband was also abroad alot since he is military and she wouldn't move to his station with him. He fought for the marriage but couldn't win. Just take note, you can divorce her but never rid of her since you have a child. In your situation of being abroad as you are, how often do you see your child and how much of impact is it going to be. Things to take into consideration. I mean if you don't see her alot now, she probably won't notice her mom and dad aren't married until she is older.
Your wife doesn't seems to respect you at all. You work so far away from home, and she is taking care the child by herself. There is a lot of responsible and she might feel like she doing both the mom and the dad job by herself. She probably feel very frustrated and lonely. You have to think a little harder, since you have a baby. Beside, how can you find to love her ,when most of the time you work away from family. (which you sure did at the beginning, that's why you married her.) I am sure if you spend more time at home, and help her with the baby, give her a little credit for being there for the baby when you not. More affection from a husband is really help her attitude change toward you.
You should think about your baby girl too...If she is old enough to recognize you it's going to be a burden on your wife so think of it as 3 sides what would happen to you to your wife AND your daughter.The decision is up to you and no one else.Think about it SLEEP on it and decide.
it has been one year for goodness sake !





why is the attitude of your wife bad? maybe because you work away and live abroad. its so early in your marriage and then you start to work away .. i wouldn't blame her
Well, I think u should! :-) find another better than her..There is no wife who curses her husband to die...


But...before u make this big desicion, talk to her first what u feel, give her one more chance, and see if there is any change....
yeah you should file for divorce. i mean if you already don't love her you probably won't be happy sticking it out til death do you part.
Yes Bong, I would get a divorce, it sounds like you are miserable and life is too short to spend it unhappy.
omg your a jerk...LEARN TO LOVE HER or you will be sent to the depths of hell
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why did you marry her?