Sunday, August 22, 2010

Married Need advice!!!?

Ok The other day I ran into an ex I hav'nt seen in 5 years. Seeing her brought back some old memories then feelings.When we where dating me and this girl had some wild times. She immeditely began going on w/ what she's been up to. Told me she was single and then gave me her number and told me to call her so we can get a drink or something. I did explain to her that I was now married which she didn't seem to care to hear about. Now what to do. I really want to see her again but don't want to loose my wife either anyway has anyone else ran into this and what did you do.Married Need advice!!!?
You should call her and tell her that as much as you would love to catch up with her, that you are happily married and that you just don't want to jeopardize anything with your current life. Just rermember there is a reson that you two broke up!! Keep that in mindMarried Need advice!!!?
You don't want to loose your wife? Then don't even go there, this girl has NO respect for your family!
duh! YOU STAY AWAY FROM HER! AVOID HER!





its not hard to comprehend!
why do you need advice at all? it's simple, throw the number away and move on. If you love your wife and you're happy then you don't even need to ask. If you're really that tempted to see your ex, then maybe you need to examine these feelings to figure out what is lacking in yourself and/or your marriage. Besides that, people always idealize past relationships. I'm sure it wasn't as great as you remember....isn't there a reason this girl is your ex? Forget this and focus on having a better marriage.
I was polite to my Ex and threw his number away when I got in the car. I didn't want to lose my loving husband. This will only cause huge problems for you. Don't add any fuel to a huge fire!
Flee... Run as far and as fast as you can in the opposite direction of her... IMMEDIATELY too...





Honor your commitment to your wife. Look forward to seeing her...





Bottom line is, have some integrity.
SHE'S YOUR EX FOR A REASON!!!!! REMEMBER WHY IT IS THAT YOU AREN'T TOGETHER ANYMORE INSTEAD OF REMEMBERING THE GOOD TIMES!!!! THINK WITH THE HEAD ON YOUR SHOULDERS, NOT IN YOUR PANTS %26amp; EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT JUST FINE!!!
you are married now and you need to stay away from this other person you took vows
If you love your wife and have any respect for her you'll throw that number away. There is no reason for a married man to be calling up a single woman!!!!
The only advice your gonna get from a man is probably what you want to hear !!!!! ......WHAT a lame excuse for asking for HELP ....WHEN YOU KNOW ITS WRONG ....SUCKER ....................GO AHEAD ,,I HOPE YOUR WIFE FINDS OUT ,,,DUMPS YOU AND GETS YOU WHAT EVER SHE CAN !!! THEN I HOPE SHE LIVES HAPPIYLY EVER AFTER WITH A LOVING REAL MAN !!!
YOU MEN! Your married, stay sway from the exes! You never know what could happen, put yourself in your wifes shoes. How would you feel if your wife felt that way.
First of all tell your wife that you ran into her. I would not make the mistake of going out to see her. Some women would not care but they would be jealous and not show their emotions. It is a touchy subject that should be avoided for your sake on fighting and causing complications and trust issues later on down the road.
Throw away her number and continue to be the decent guy your wife married.
Yeah. You don't go and see your ex especially involving alcohol and old feelings. You're setting your your marriage up for failure and heartache for your wife. You have a new life you don't need to start another one. Stop being selfish!!! Don't do it you are making a huge mistake! and I'm assuming that you would be lying to your wife in the process I'm sure that she's not okay with you going to have a drink with your ex with out her. If you think it;s such a great idea take your wife with you. I'm sure that she'd love that. Don't be a looser! The grass is not greener on the other side. Love your wife!
If you feel like this relationship could be taken to a different level tear up her number and leave this situation alone. Talk to your wife. Tell her what happened and understand that if you want to keep your wife then you have to be honest. Maybe you could all three hang out. If your X has no respect for your marriage and you continue to communicate with her that tells me you have no respect for your marriage. NO SECRETS!!!!!!
Thom said it best... take heed.
Well im not married, but it feels like it. This happened to me I ran into my ex-fiance, I told my boyfriend about running into him, and he told me how he felt. I havent talked or seen him since, if your wife says yeah go catch up, then go have a drink, but if she expresses hurtful/jealous feelings its better to just forget about her.
It's easy You either decide that you love your wife and toss her number or you leave your wife THEN give her a call. Doing anything else makes you a very cruel and uncaring person.
you know they say once a x always a x dont mess up your marrage for her!or take your wife with you
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