Im 19 and has been ask to get married any advice?

My boyfriend asked me to marry him when I was about your age. I am now 29, still unmarried, and so glad that I didn't jump in. I changed so much in the last decade. Even guys that I dated 3 years ago are guys I would not associate myself with now. It would have been a huge mistake. Take some time to think about it. If you want college and a career, this may not be the right time for you. Right now, I'm college educated, have a well paying sucessful career, and I am dating the most wonderful man in the world. If he's meant to be The One, he will be even if you decide to wait a few years. Don't rush to get weighed down during the most important years of your young adult lifeIm 19 and has been ask to get married any advice?
Don't do it unless you are 110% positive that this is what you want. Just the fact you are posting this on Y makes me think you are not even ready to get married.Im 19 and has been ask to get married any advice?
if u truly love this person and u want to spend the rest of ur life with them u should still wait until ur a little older
the fact that you posted ur age and did not include any other information makes me think you dont think you are quite ready for marriage. Maybe you think ur too young or just dont want to at this time of your life.
i think you should wait untill you start your career and know what you want to do in this great big world. getting married could be the best thing that happens to you but at such a young age do you really want to be a house wife and have children right away instead of being young and living your life to the fullest
well for one you are too young to get married because your still young and haven't gone out in the world and have fun and get it off your system. Because you don't need to regret it later, so think about it first before doing it.
If you think it will work out %26amp; love him then do it...but financial problems are the leading cause of divorce now a days, it's suggested that women wait till they're about 25 because that is the age that they are mostly finacialy stable on their own.
Follow your heart... Marriage is a big thing. Dont jump in if you have any doubts.
i would say you are a little young. you are going to do a lot of changing in the next five to ten years. i would hold off for a while. what is the rush?????? you have the rest of your life to be a wife. don't rush it, it will be more meaningful when you are a little older.
you have your whole life in front of you. get the heck away from him.wait until you're financially stable, and than see if you two want to get married.
Well speaking from past experience, I was once engaged at the age of 19 as well. He had proposed to me only after about 7 months of dating. We didn't have any plans to get married until 2 years later (after he graduated from university) but deep down inside I still had doubt. The engagement didn't last long. We started having problems when I moved to a university nearby to his. His friends weren't used to ';sharing'; him. You would think they'd be understanding that me and him were in a serious relationship and ENGAGED but they still said mean things like I should find my own friends to do things with. And of course he sided with them. He wanted to hang out with his friends and go to parties etc. So to cut it short, the engagement only lasted about 3 1/2 months and I ended up taking off the ring 3 times. Looking back at it all now, I can clearly see that we rushed into it and it was all a mistake to do so. May be if we didn't, we'd still be together. It just added a big pressure to our lives. But don't let my crappy experience deter you. If you feel you're ready and you have ABSOLUTELY NO DOUBTS go ahead. There have been some successful marriages at that age that managed to last. But think about other things first such as money, career etc before you do so. You don't want to wind up as another divorce statistic.
You have a whole lifetime ahead of you. You can still be together with a serious commitment without having to get married so don't rush and see if the commitment is real.
Well, how do you feel about the other person?


Ask your parents, ask your friends, and absolutely talk to the other person about it too!