I am newly married any advice?

i am 17 years old and have a 1 month old baby girl and i am getting married in 3 days .. any advice ..?I am newly married any advice?
wow...I would suggest starting your marriage off right by building some kind of a foundation under it. If a house is built and has no foundation then when the test of weather and time come against it, it will fall. However, if the house is built with a good strong foundation it will stand the test of weather and time. So, it is the same with a marriage relationship. I suggest you two build your foundation on God's word (the bible) read it together and pray together and begin (if you don't already) to serve God together. Just simply by obeying his word (bible). Another thing is communication...never forget to let each other know what's on your mind. And never go to bed angery...resolve the issue first. Hope this helps...God bless and congrats =)I am newly married any advice?
Never go to bed angry.





Have a hobby that both of you enjoy, even if it's mowing the yard.





Visit your parents often.





Take good care of each other in every way.





Be kind to one another.
See if you can find a sitter during the honeymoon. Are you marrying the father of your one year old?
Communication in your marriage will be very important in maintaining a strong, healthy relationship. Talk to your man about everything and encourage him to talk to you too. He should be your best friend and not just your husband. Keep the home fires burning and don't let a baby in the house be an excuse to lose your passion and desire to be with him intimately. Good luck with your marriage and congrats on your new baby!
what advise be given for marriage to an lady who is already a mother.
Honestly I think you are too young to be getting married. I was 21 when I first got married. It was still too young. If you are still planning on getting married, communication is the key. If something is bothering you, be open and honest with your spouse. Don't hint if something is wrong; honesty is the only true policy. Everyday tell your spouse that you love them and appreciate them.
Remember you wont always get your own way. You are going to have to give more than you take. House work is hard do it anyway and the baby are also hard work but worth it in the end.
Don't do it!!! Not unless you've had pre-marital counseling.
um RUN, RUN fast RUN far!
Been there, done that and divorced. Here's my 3 key advices to you:


1) Don't be overly selfish. It's our nature to want things our way all the time. But if you do this, your marriage WILL fail.


2) Don't sweat the petty stuff. Things are just things. Don't fight over small material stuff. If you're in for the long run, then all that small stuff won't matter 50 years from now.


3) Give each other space. You still need a ';life'; of your own every now and then. Being together all the time will kill a relationship.





Good luck!!
Wow, I would suggest waiting until you are older, but if I remember correctly- when I was 17 I didn't heed anyone's advice.





So, that being said, I wish you the best of luck. Seek some pre-marital counseling, and remember that because you are young, you both have a lot of growing up to do. This will cause strain and frustration at times, and it's hard!! Talk through things and seek external help if necessary. Please don't just get married because you had a kiddo together- that's not enough.
I thought you had to be 18 or over to get married???
TAKE CARE...................
Here is my advice...





Just because you are have a child with someone, does not mean that you should be getting married.


At 17, you have no clue what you want.





Marriage is not something to be taken lightly, unless you honestly believe you have found the man that you are 100% happy with, you will have nothing but problems.
Be a good mother.


Think about the marriage thing.





I do not recommend marriage. but that is me





I wish you lots of happiness
that sucks. Know that you are trading your youth for a lifetime of emotions, regrets, missed opportunities.
Unlike the other two answers I'm going to congratulate you on your upcoming marriage. The best advice I can give is remember since you are you the two of you will grow and change. Try to do it together....stay interested in at least a couple common things.
Seventeen is too young to get married dude. But if its going down in 3 days and your not backing out let me tell you what you need to do. Find a good bible based church and attend together every single week. Pray together several times a week. As the husband, you can lead your marriage into church and to God where it will be nurtured and made better everyday, or you can lead it into the ';world'; where it will be destroyed.
Always appreciate her and tell her all the time that you do. Even when things are bad, find SOMETHING to appreciate.





If you decide to wait on the marriage many people will respect your decision.
Lots of advice!





But...I'll keep it simple.





Focus on a giving relationship. Give to each other, not take.





Don't point blame at each other. Keep issues what they are - Issues that both of you can work on as a team.





Change - Don't be afraid to take risk and push your goals beyond what you think you can do.





Show each other that you care about their interests. Be involved in each other and care about what they do.





Have a plan for when issues come up. Come up with key words and don't ever forget to tell each other you love them....even when you feel hurt.





Don't be afraid to take a break if you disagree. Just remember to tell the person how long of a break you need.





Remember that sex doesn't make a marriage. Sex is a side benefit of marriage. Sex won't keep your relationship alive. Love will.





Trust each other 200%. Confide in each other. Always be honest. Forgive easily. Remember, you are only human.





Don't be hateful in your words ever. Anger scars.





Figure out your baskets. Basket A, B, and C. Figure out what things are going to create tension between you in regards to money, sex, home, etc...and sort it out before the tension is there. Figure out what you are willing to sacrifice, what you are willing to compromise on, and what you stand firm in your beliefs and discuss it openly before issues arise. There are many books and counselors who would sit down with you to discuss these issues and help you sort them out.





Ask your partner often how you are doing and if there is weakness that they can help you with. Grow with each other and never stop. Never think that you have reached the pinnacle of your relationship.





Relish in your relationship. Lavish in each other and keep your passion fulfulled. Show each other love in every thing you do. Wake up and enjoy each other. Lay awake and share your dreams with each other.
If you want your marriage to work, wait until you are both older and more mature. Marriage is hard, hard, hard work. It isn't just about playing house or living together and having sex. It is more than that and at 17 you can't even begin to understand that.
Sorry but you cant pick and choose the advice you ask from others. You married young so therefor you are going to have to grow up fast, you have a child, husband. No more kid/teen stuff, its all about being a adult now. You need to put your husband and child first not your friends..not your family (mom, dad.sister ect) the husband and child are your new family now. Im guessing your living with parents atm or someone to help with living expenses my advice would be save as much money as you can so you can get your own place with your new family, living with someone this new into your marriage can be a mistake down the road, its good short term though. If your not living with ppl and you have your own place togeather then good job thats a plus. Your a mom now and wife that does not mean you have to put things you want in life aside however it does not mean you can just think about yourself either, you have to find a good balence of the two. STAY IN SCHOOL!! no matter what, im sure your not back in school yet but go back asap graduate because you dont know what will happen in the future, im not saying this because your young im saying this because your married and alot of ppl all ages get married and divorced so least if that happens you will have a hs education to fall back on to help support your child. Try and get out with your husband 1 a month at least for a date night type thing, no baby just you and him. Money im sure is tight atm having a new baby so this date night does not have to be anything fancy...driving around...hang out with friends, whatever as long as it brings you both togeather. Also you might see your friends not come around as much, i hope this dont happen but it might, it mostly because you wont have alot in common with them no more, there all about living there teen yrs., partys, dating, school stuff, proms, ect. Your kinda on another level now...for those that do stick around those are your true friends...keep them close because you will need them at hard times like fight with the husband, kid wont stop crying, whatever it may be. I wish you all the luck in your marriage. Dont let ppl tell you it wont work but know you have alot ahead of you, if you and your husband want it to work it will.