Getting married (need advice on sex)?

I am 20, virgin, scared to death from sex i feel like i wouldn't know what to do plus i am very self conscious about my body i can't imagine beeing naked in front of my husband


can you tell me anything that can help?Getting married (need advice on sex)?
Oh i know what you mean trust me I was a virgin and my husband wasn't talk about weird I had no idea what to do and he had 7 years of practice.


But don't worry it will be really awkward at first you will slowly get use to the idea of being naked around him. and as far as the sex goes it will be weird if you are both virgins but it will be fine. I will give you a little advise if he doest get lube you definitely should the first few times is tight!!! It helps. go with the flow ;) it will be great good luck I was in your position over 1 year ago and now I look back and laugh I'm sure you will to.Getting married (need advice on sex)?
Hunny, you are a get person and deserve to be in love with someone, sex is just icing on the cake, Hunny, sex is supposed to be fun and exciting a time for you and your husband(to be) to find out overeating about each other. You know the first time was very hard for me I was 20, we the spell it me, there are all kinds of books about sex and loving making, how to's, they can help you, get started. Good Luck and Congrats on the marriage.
You are just having normal fears. You will get over it. He should understand that this is your first time. The more you have sex the better it becomes. Make sure you are equally as satisfied as he is. He needs to make sure your needs are met as well. Time will make things better. Have fun and enjoy. Congrats
First of all, if you are getting married, then there is no need to be self conscience of your body. Apparently your hubby to be likes what he sees. You WILL know what to do. That part comes naturally. Enjoy it and I wish you the best. Trust me after the first time is out of the way, you will be fine and not thinking about how you look. ;)
you'll be allright,,,,its the circle of life Zimba
just go with it.
Honestly, I am concerned that you are scared about sex and getting married. If you are so immature as to not be confident in yourself then you really have no business getting married. I am not saying that being a virgin or waiting until you are married is a bad thing, but you should not be getting married if you are scared to death about something as natural as sex.





Have you not done other things? Kissing, hugging, petting eachother? Have you not gotten hot and bothered enough to have some naughty thoughts? These are all thing that prepare you to throw caution to the wind and go for it.





I understand being a little hesitant and nervous about performing but this is going to be your husband! You can do whatever you feel like...nothing is wrong when it comes to having fun in the sack with your significant other. And you HAVE to be confident in your own body! You need to know what works for you and what makes you feel good so get to know your own body before you turn it over to your husband.





Also, be aware that good sex can take time and practice with some couples...have fun, be adventurous and enjoy eachother!
Sara... just take it slow and easy... :) Go pick out some lingerie that would make you feel beautiful and cover up those areas that you are self-concious about... then, on your wedding night.. just take it slow and enjoy finding out about one another's bodies... have fun! :) Trust me, the two of you will figure out what to do! :)
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whoa...if you can't imagine being naked with your mate, then why are you together?





i would think, virgin or not, you should be chomping at the bits to get naked with him...but hey everyone is different. just try to relax and take a deep breath...ahhhhh





now, if your hubby loves you as much as you love him, then you have nada to worry about. ok!


just practice, lots together...you have the rest of your lives right:)
1. Remember you are beautiful and he loves you.....


2. Find yourself a real pretty nitey, wear it around your room, look at yourself in the mirror, and tell yourself how beautiful you are.


3. Maybe you need to explore yourself alone. Touching yourself can help you understand some of the pleasures without being with him.


4. Sex: Try and relax...if it wasn't good everyone would not be doing it......If your husband has experience, he will be able to teach you and most of it comes natural after you've experienced it the first time.





Congrats, and Best Wishes......
Very normal it will take a few nights before you finally do the act..


But once you do you will enjoy it.


But really I am sure your soon to be husband is thrilled that you waited for him.


GOOD FOR YOU!
Just relax, take your time, and let nature run it's course. As humans we all have the need, desire and ability to have sex. The first couple of times will feel awkward and clumsy. You may have some embarrassment, but remember this is the man you love and one of the best ways to show him how much you love him is through sex. Of course sex is NOT the only way, but in the beginning of a new marriage, it is very important.


If he has had some experience, let him teach you. Hopefully, he will be patient and understanding for the first couple of times.


As far as having your husband see you naked, most men are very visual and that picture is what has been playing in his mind for a long time. He will love your body. Try it the first couple of times with just a dim light on so everything is sort of dark. That way you can get used to it gradually.


After a few days you will not only enjoy being naked in front of him but will love looking at his naked body also.
Yeah! get over it or the marriage isn't going to work out.
Relax and think of England.