Sunday, August 22, 2010

Married to a good guy by arranged marriage but still in love with Ex. Ex asked me to marry him. Advice Please?

When i sat next 2 a guy o talkd 2 a guy ex (emotional %26amp; cant control negativ emotions) got jealous %26amp; startd arguments. Was hurt coz he didnt trust me so i told him i couldnt do it anymore. Stopd all contacts with him coz it was unbearable 4 me 2 talk 2 him but not b with him. In 2002 got married 2 my husband by arranged marriage. Husband is a good man but not without faults. Do love husband but still passionately/madly love ex. Ex calld sometimes 2 c how im doin %26amp; it was so hard when he did. Last year signd up 2 facebook %26amp; saw his pics which brought back uncontrollable emotions. Recently talkd 2 ex %26amp; he said that he tried 2 commit suicide on my wedding day %26amp; that he still loves me %26amp; that he knows that i still love him. I couldnt deny. But i told him 2 get married 2 a good girl as i always did before. He said that he realizes that it was his fault we broke up, that hes sorry %26amp; askd me 2 marry him. I dont want 2 hurt husband but my heart %26amp; mind is with ex. Married for 6 years but no kidsMarried to a good guy by arranged marriage but still in love with Ex. Ex asked me to marry him. Advice Please?
or you divorce your husband and marry your ex, or jut forget him and have no contacts and live your life with your husband why did you even bother getting married?Married to a good guy by arranged marriage but still in love with Ex. Ex asked me to marry him. Advice Please?
ur ex is so desprate hes tellin u he attempted suicide but a suicidal personprobally wudnt admit it u gotta decide who has ur heart think it over the answer will come
Looks like you have a choice to make. You can't ride two horses with one a ss.
you are in a situation where u wanna hold water in ur hand but cant hold......


listen dear..... u are resposible for the decisions, think well before deciding... i suggest have a word with ur hubby about this situation without disclosing that u are in this situation. then speak to you Ex, take time and decide on what these two answer..... but be careful when u are deciding coz u are holding 3 diffrent precious lives......
complex situation but not somthn that cant be solved. think of it this way.. if ur gonna jeopardise the marriage of 6 years(.......!!!) its abt breaking the trust of 2 whole families.. also, after u get back to ur ex, wat if u find things not working for u again with him after coupla mnths?? u defntly cant get back to ur husband, i dont think ur parents wud respect u either.atleast earlier, u had the option of walkin out of the affair n gettn married to som1 else but now, if u hav to get bac to ur ex, he will know that u wudnt or cant go anywer again;unless u have a very good job to support urself n live a life single... if he was emotional then n didnt trust u, do u have a good solid reason to think hes changed?if yes, thats good.





Ur husband might come with his own faults but then again, so have you... i can understand that u love ur ex n want life to be lik the old days... think of the situation from all angles n theories... n take ur call on it..





edit** whomever u decide to block from ur life, make sure ur not having access to their snaps.... no use crying over spilt milk..
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