I just got married. Any advice?

Such a one-of-a-kind question... lol.I just got married. Any advice?
Just pretend every day is the day you fell in love.


Sounds silly, but hug and kiss and hold hands and tell him he is the best thing and the hottest thing ever!


And do not let 3rd parties into your marriage, friends or family . The least everyone knows about your marriage, the better for you! Do NOT tell your girlfriends anything on your hubby other that all is good!


Good Luck!I just got married. Any advice?
Nothing else 2 say, but u need 2 av a mutual understanding with each other. that will kary ur marital life 4 a long run r 4evr

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The key to a successful marriage can be summed up in one word-------Patience.
Communication!


Never go to bed mad at each other.


Have fantasy sex.


Have roll playing sex.


Wear leather, the smell arousal's each other.
Never fight about money or chores and you'll be fine. Always allow him to still have guy nights and don't forget to treat yourself as well. Communication is the key. Congrats! =)
Keep him happy or he will go elsewhere!
Now he's going to change...He will start leaving the toilet seat up..





Good luck
All that lovey dovey stuff he did to win you? Forget it--it will now fade away...
Yes.If you married a decent man, treat him like one.Always show him respect,try to see things from his point of view(not that he will always be right) so you can understand where he is coming from. Do things for him when you don;t feel like it(sex especially) because he doesn;t always feel like doing thins but does them because he loves you and honors the commitment he made to you.
throw out the words me,myself,or I. now its us, we.
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you will have your hard times and good times..i would say yur 1st year will be hard but it will get easy........go to church together it really helps.......i've been married for about almost 2 years now things were tough at 1st and we just had our 1st child things seem to be coming along better.,.....marriage is a job i'm 23.....i can handle it.....you will be able to also.......just keep god in your family and every thing will be alright..congrats
Argue fairly. Never bring up other issues that have nothing to do with what you are really mad about. Go ahead and get angry and get it out into the open. Then discuss that issue and ONLY that issue and get over it. Compromise once in a while - no one is right 100% of the time. No sulking!
Do not go to bed mad!!
Work on getting to really know what makes each of you happy, don't assume anything.





Honesty. If you are doing something you do not what your spouse to know about, then don't do it!





Protect yourself and your marriage from outside influences by actively building protective boundaries.





Don't neglect your marriage or you might just lose it.





Just because you are married, don't forget to ';date'; and make time for one another, especially once you have children .


If something is wrong, don't just wait for it to fix itself, it won't.


Seek help.





Communicate.
#1-Love. Unconditional, comitted love.


#2 - Divorce is never an option.


#3 - As for sickness, health, poverty and wealth, remember rules 1 and 2


#4 - Communication works in every area of your marriage - finances, decisions, sex (oh, yeah - especially there), relatives, or whatever. Talk and LISTEN.





That should get you started. God bless!
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