Sex advice for married couples?

What advice would you give to married couples for great sex?


My husband and I have been married a year and half. He works night shift so sometimes I will get up so we can have sex but then he is not in the mood. We are trying to get pregnant and have been for almost a year but the problem is we don't have sex often. It is just not passionate and I don't know what else to do. He doesn't like the sexy outfits or candles or anything like that. Help.Sex advice for married couples?
wow. my bf is like that too.


it's not easy. especially since i love those things..have a big collection of lingerie...love candles, soft music..while none of that does it for him either.


you (we) just have to find out what actually turns them on, i guess. my bf seems to like what i consider ';quickies';.


so maybe you can make a compromise. one night, he lets you take control..and you can wear something sexy and take it slow and passionate..and then next time, he can have his ';wham, bam, thank you maam'; (or whatever)


maybe he'll discover he likes the ';passionate'; night!


here's hoping..Sex advice for married couples?
Go to his work and do it
i know someone like this but no tgetting pregent already had kids-- but anyways let him sleep when he gets home and plan the candles and sexy outfite for the weekends..
try changing place, pick a romantic scenery
hello hun, well were do i start :):) well he doesn't like the sexy stuff night wear ect, how about any toy's for you or him ? have you ever been to www.adam%26amp;eve.com ? i think that's how it's spelled, if not i'll ck. my e-mail to see %26amp; get back with you lol :):) have you thought of that or maybe tried anything you have at home ?? how about any kinky movie's ?? i myself i'm a outdoorsman love to garden ect. so i turned my half on outdoors, while on fishing on the river or boatting, even in the garden at night time :):):) well hope you get something to work soon as the more time without sex is not good for you ect. take care. jay
Coming from a guys perspective, maybe he is not ready for a child and is avoiding sex all together. Best thing to do is sit with him and voice your concerns. If he doesn't know how you feel then it will all stay the same. Until then use toys!
My husband isn't much for candles and outfits either and we have been married for about a year and a half also. We have just had a son almost 8 months ago and it can be tough to get any action in between caring for our baby and my dear hubbie working so hard.





I have recently suggested we read a book that I have called HOT SEX by Tracey Cox. Another that I have called A complete idiot's guide to amazing sex looks good too. If you try to read those together if you can both be in the same place at the same time.... perhaps on weekends, then you can look for ideas. Try just exploring each other. Wake him in an interesting way :) and see where things go from there.





Good luck, I am sending out conception vibes :)
just f**k eachother
wow.. he dosn't like that!?





Is he from this planet?
Are you averted to morning sex? Many men have a lot more desire in the morning, when they are not tired. So if you're OK with it - try it.





Suprise him by wearing nothing underneath your normal clothes. You'll have to be patient. You'll have to wait till he gropes you.





Try ';quickies'; in unsusal places. Like in the bathroom or in the kitchen, garage, closet. Table, kitchen counter. My bf gets bored with the bedroom routine too.





Maybe he's just stressed and tired, that's all there is to it.





Do you have tons of old bras and panties? Throw them away. Splurge on a few new bras and panties. Even if he's not into it, he will notice.
Get a school girl outfit and some naughty movies. Even if you are not into them, he will be. Don't try and force the pregnancy part, it might turn you both off if you think its a chore. Let it happen naturally. Or try some fun foods in the bedroom. Like whip cream, cherries, etc. Together you two should be able to come up with something creative. Have fun and good luck.
the biggest and most important thing is to be healthy and make sure you both are getting enough sleep. Working on the night shift has been shown to be a contributing factor to heart disease, stroke, arteriovascular disease, nervous system dysfunctions, and cancer. Make him get at least 8 or even 9 hours of sleep every single day - you can't sleep in on the weekends to make up for not enough during the week. Have sex with him BEFORE he goes to work, and make certain you have plenty of time before he has to get dressed and go.


When he is awake with you, do fun things he likes to do, go places like paddle boat rides, and movies. just because you are married doesn't mean you have to stop dating him. My hubby likes to be woken up with sex or oral, I like seeing his reaction as he wakes up, but don't completely surprise him with it - tell him you might try that one day to see if he hates the idea or not.