Ladies....how many of you will admit to seeing a married man? Your advice to someone considering it?

I've met a man who makes me weak in the knees. He admitted up front that he is married and has kids. So, he's been totally honest. He said he has no desire to change his living circumstances....just wants more.





I am single and normally would never consider it. The thing is....he's a retired navy seal....tall %26amp; handsome....charismatic, as hell. And, I don't want a relationship either. ';Friends with priveleges'; would work for me.





It's just that....I've never been the kind to cheat. I'm torn.Ladies....how many of you will admit to seeing a married man? Your advice to someone considering it?
Don't do it. Cheating is never good. You have higher morals than that and don't forget them for a man who just wants you on the side. The worst part is that your not just ruining your reputation, you could end up ruining the lives of his innocent kids. Now that truly isn't fair. Weigh in the good and bad. And in this case the bad definitely overrides the good.Ladies....how many of you will admit to seeing a married man? Your advice to someone considering it?
Think about it really hard and how you would feel as the other woman.


If you still want to, go for it! But always think about the Consequences.
Sorry to sound harsh but you're an *** if you do it. Think of how his family would feel if they found out. He's just using you because he's a selfish piece of crap. You can have 'friends with privileges' with a single man. There's nothing you can do to sell the fact that sleeping with a married man is a good idea. If his marriage is bad enough that he needs to sleep with someone else then he needs to divorce his wife. He needs to be a man and step up. Right now, he's just a very small man. I have no respect for that kind of man or a woman who KNOWINGLY sleeps with a married man.
I have done it, sadly and regret it dearly. We destroyed our own lives, trust, families, etc. It's deceptive, dishonest, and you will regret the decision. You will be sneaking around like a criminal and committing acts you never even dreamed of in normal relationships. He's a dog for reeling you in and is going to use for his own gain. If he cheats on her, he will cheat on you and who knows with who. What diseases is he bringing into your bed? Are you going to let him do that? Find a decent man with no ring and date him. There's tons of nice guys out there, don't waste your life with this loser.
My advice to you is DO NOT do it! You say that you don't want a relationship, but do you really want a friends with benefits relationship? If so, this is what will happen.





You will end up falling in love with him. He makes you weak in the knees, is handsome and charming. Why wouldn't you want to be around him? You will become the woman who he has fun with, whom he can escape from his everyday life and feel free again. You will make each other laugh, will become each others friend, and you he will sweep you off your feet.





You will end up wanting more, and he won't be able to give it to you. He admitted upfront that he is married, but he may end up giving you the lines that every woman in an affair hears. ';We don't have sex, I have to stay for the children, I want to leave her, etc.'; He will say these things when he feels you are losing interest in the game.





One day, you will look in the mirror and you will wonder why and how you have become this woman. You will feel horrible for getting inbetween a man and his family. And you will try to justify everything in your mind. But it won't work. You will always think back to the time you were dating a married man.





The guy sounds great, but think about this....he is a married man who is willing to have an affair because he wants more. What kind of man is that?
i am a single mother and i have been involved with a married man, my advice is no don't do it, but remember this is my advice let me tell you why i say no. Your birthday who do u plan on spending it with, Christmas's who will you be with and how come the presents you buy for him are left at your house. Family trips don't include you and you will never meet his children or family it is a lonely relationship could go gone but you can find someone of your own so take your time and be happy.
I think .... that whatever people say on here, you will go ahead with this relationship. It`s called (LUST)


And whatever you say to yourself now, like ... I`ll just see him once, I won`t really get involved, you will get involved with him, you may even fall in love with him and want him to leave his wife eventually.


You know it`s wrong, but your body is telling you to go ahead.


The only way you can get over this is to move away from him, get him out of your life, try to forget him.


Unfortunately.. a man of this kind will have an extra marital affair, be it with you or with someone else.
i would never even consider it and neither should u..do u really wanna be a homewreacker? how would u feel if some wonam took ur husband away from u? think about that...
wel hes been completley honest by the sounds of it maybe ask him for a threesome with his wife lol
okay, well here I go... I have been with a married man, unfortunately I did not know he was married until afterwards... He told me that they were getting a divorce... long story short.





I never in a million years would have imagined getting messed up with a married man... Why. simple, i would not want my husband to cheat on me, that is when I am married.





Essentially you would not be cheating if you are not in a relationship... However, you would be the product of someone cheating...





I cannot tell you what you should or should not do, and I am not one to judge simply because i have also committed this act... However, I would ask you to consider your options... and what could happen as a result...





Also you have to wonder if you are the first one he has cheated on his wife with, in most cases prolly not, therefore if its not you this time it will be someone else...
dont do it,,,, its wrong,, hes married,,,, ur not,,, let him go,,,,, expecially, if hes got kids,,,,
Don't do it. Stay true to your morals don't even go there, stay away from that man.... Would you want your husband whom you have children with do that to you? And how would you feel about a cheating husband? Don't do it. Who cares how charismatic, handsome etc that he is there are plenty of men that are the same but are single or divorced. Just don't do it you'll regret it. Just keep thinking about how terrible you would feel if you had a husband and cheated on you...
HELL NO. he is married and even if he doesnt have the respect of his vows God does. you will get what you give and you may be that wife one day. right now the thought of the forbidden love has you open but at what cost.... his family,


your self respect and sanity. dont do it. i have seen this on court tv. husband cheats.wife kills everyone.
Friends with privileges and I don't want a relationship.....how those words rang a bell! Do not do it. He makes you weak in the knees now? I went down the same road....said the same words. I fell in love and in the end it hurt everyone. People are where they want to be in their lives. He is married for a reason. Run the other way and find a tall and handsome single man. The pain involved is not worth it. It is wrong for everyone involved.
Run Away. And as fast as you can.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no. And just in case that didn't sink in, no. Sure, maybe he's being honest with you, but what about his wife and kids? And if he's charismatic enough to make you rethink your principles and ignore the fact that there are loads of other handsome, charismatic guys out there without this kind of baggage, how can you be so positive you'll stay satisfied with a no strings attached arrangement?





So, to reiterate: no. No, no, no, no, no. No.
You are a home wrecking Whore!! imagine if it were you married to this LOSER....How would you feel. You would be cussing out this WHORE for ruining her life (that would be your role) Find a good looking single guy or face the concequences of your own actions and concience....If you have one left......You triffling whore!!
no matter how tempting this may seem, don't do it... you really need to think about how you would feel if you were married having your husband do this to you... Its really best to think of others before your own selfish wants...
Sex, is great.


Done right it takes allot of time.


He will not be able to keep the fact of his extra sex from his wife and kids.


But he may not be able to stop any way.


Therefore after thinking and talking allot, Give him the best sex you can, gather up your strength, climb up on top and do it again.
don't do it. this kind of kharma can be hard to deal with. don't take on a jerry springer plotline willingly!
As a married man, I say go for it. It will be lots of fun and as long as you are discreet, then nobody gets hurt.
Homewrecking is not a good idea. He's not an honest person considering he's putting himself out there to cheat on his wife.





Why would you want to be the ';Other woman';!?


Tell him you like him but that you deserve better than being with sloppy seconds!


Good luck.
Dont do it! Friends with benifits is still cheating. Dont do that to his children. Its what broke my parents up and I hate my dad for it!!!
i have never done it ..... but all i can say is dont get attached.... he has a family and you wouldnt want to mess that up for him. but try it out .... if you feel yourself starting to get attached, end it!
you are a true blooded sl*ut
Don't do it. If you have never been the kind to cheat, then don't compromise your morals for some guy who obviously has none (since enabling someone to cheat is still threatening to your moral paradigm).