Need advice from married/live-in women?

why is it the when a woman first meets a man she screws his brains out then after a a few months she says if u love me then the great sex should not matter. my case i drive an 18 wheeler and i stay away 3 weeks. when i come home i bring flowers, cards and take her to diner, but after that long away i do want to get between the sheets. she will do it but later says im doing what u require of me. in the beginning she was all over me. after the first night home for a couple of nights we lay on the couch cuddle then go to bed with no sex as this pisses her off if i want more than one night. any cluesNeed advice from married/live-in women?
Any glues ! dude they are slapping you in the face...if your away for 3 weeks at a time and when you get back you give her all that plus your undivided attention ,then she is soooooo being serviced during the time your away! My man is gone in camp for weeks at a time ,even after 9 year of marriage,3 kids I still an't keep my hands off him even when he is all smelly and gross as soon as he gets in the door.... ok ok so lets say I'm wrong, then start offering to take her on the road a few times with ya....go have hot sex in some national parks along your route!Need advice from married/live-in women?
what?:
do you have children??..maybe she is tired when you get back..my husband works out of town for months at a time and the 2 times i did not go i wanted to die!!..when he got home i attacked him in like 2 minutes!! but we don't have children yet (i am having our first anyday now)..but still i don't know maybe you should just talk to her about it..
She is probablly secretly resenting you for being on the road for so long at a time. Some women cant say it right out they make you play guessing games. good luck.. I would try to talk to her to get everything out in the open. Im sure when she is most horny you are gone so she gets over it by time you come home... that can probablly be frusterating..
maybe she has some hormonal problems.
The thing about relationships is that they need a lot of nurturing. A mixture of regular oiling and massaging and special occasion events. Every three weeks is way to infrequent and some how you must find a way to do the daily maintenance to enjoy the big crescendo when you want it.
I have no idea why you are married and have this type of job. The reason she is not willing to spread them the minute you walk in the door is because she is upset with you for being away for three weeks and leaving her to deal with the family and home problems by herself. Actually this is a good thing..at least she gives a darn that you are not around. Stop with the flowers (they are only making her feel guilty about being mad at you) Keep in contact with her every single day you are gone (phone or emails) Make sure you always have a family vacation to look forward to.
that really sucks for you but there has to be other issues at play here...how long have you been in this relationship?, any kids? what is her work schedule like??


do you take your time and make sure she enjoys bedtime or get yourself taken care of and be done with it
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