Wednesday, November 23, 2011

I'm getting married tomorrow, any advice?

Give me the good, the bad, the funny, or sad....anything at all....Share your avant-garde views, and some old family traditions, what about the night before, tell me your in-Laws positions....anything at all....Can the flowers be roses, or maybe carnation, is silk better yet, and do two Souls form a nation....anything at all....it's possible now!I'm getting married tomorrow, any advice?
Congrats! I just want to say..Please DO NOT LET THE ROMANCE DIE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP! Life gets tough and when that part of the marriage gets pushed aside, it is all down hill from there. Believe me when I say this. Keep the random kisses, hugs, pinches, passion and pats going! If you two continue to show each other how much you care and desire each other, you can hurdle any obstacle you might face together.


Oh yeah, much tolorance of another's shortcomings helps tooo!..lol


Good luck and I wish you both MANY years of happiness together! :)I'm getting married tomorrow, any advice?
congratulations, dram-- hope this is one of the happiest days of your life!

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You picked the BEST answer - that's always a great start. Happy Trails too you and your (by now) wife.

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Well if you are the groom it is a nice gesture to buy your soon to be wife a nice gift and have someone give it to her right before the ceremony, it always helps. Also if you have ever had anything sweet and loving you wanted to tell her today would be the day.
THE WEDDING IS JUST THE CEREMONY. THE MARRIAGE IS WERE YOU MUST STAY COMMITTED, IN EVERY ASPECT, SUCH AS, TEMPTATION, DISAGREEMENTS, ETC. ONE MORNING YOU WILL WAKE UP AND THINK ';HOW DID I GET HERE';, ';WHY';..ETC. YOU MUST REMEMBER, EVERYONE GOES THROUGH THAT AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIFE, MARRIED OR NOT. YOUR SAFETY NET IS HAVING TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND TO BE STRONG IN YOUR CONVICTIONS. IF YOU HAVE ANY DOUBTS TODAY...RIGHT NOW....ABOUT YOURSELF, YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE, AND/OR MARRIAGE ITSELF, PLEASE DO NOT GET MARRIED. AS NO ONE CAN PREDICT THE FUTURE, AND IF YOU FEEL STRONG AND CONFIDENT, ENJOY LIFE TOGETHER (EVEN THE HARDSHIPS), AS IT GOES BY SO FAST. I WISH YOU HEALTH AND HAPPINESS ALWAYS!
1- Listen to what ';no cutesy name :)'; had to tell you - that really is it.





2- Listen to what ';no cutesy name :)'; had to tell you - that really is it. [ It doesn't hurt to repeat a good thing once in a while] :-)





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3- Get off this darn venue (i.e. Y!A) and don't come back anytime soon either - go have fun with your wife, instead.








Congrats and Good Luck!
Congratulations!!!





Take ONE DAY AT A TIME .....





Both of you have a ';LIFE TIME';.





DON'T WASTE IT !!!!!





ENJOY LIFE, LOVE AND THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS.





OLD DAWG











SAID SO !!!!!
Smile %26amp; be happy! Good luck. Don't forget the ring!
RUN!! NOW!!
Always remember to stick to your marriage vows and take the good with the bad. Also you have to commicate with one another! You are in for life, so keep that in mind. You leave your parents and cleave to your wife!
Congratulations!!!! :)





Much love to you two, and my best wishes for a very happy life together!! :)
On the actual wedding day, take the time to stop and REALLY BE IN THE MOMENT! It's easy to get swept away in all the planning and details, but you want to remember this event so try to truly be in the moment!





In the future make it a point to keep communication between the two of you open and honest. Take time for romance. Don't forget date night just because you're married!





Good luck and best wishes!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!





I am very happy for you!! My only advice is to marry this person ONLY if they are all you want in your life.








SAndy :O)
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I'm sorry you must lying.





My best friend is getting married tomorrow too. And he is so stressed that he has me stressed. There is NOTHING that can be picked on the day before or the day of when it comes to weddings unless you do one of those Vegas Weddings.





My buddy is having a small wedding, and that is costing 40K and they have been planning since at least February.
unless you have a great relationship with your inlaws, keep those suckers at bay, they can cause a lot o' trouble. After 8 years the mother in law meddles like never before from ';dump him, and abort the baby'; (our first born daughter who they dote over), to actually driving us from the same town (we lived across the street from them, it was so bad her being a continuous idiot, we both quit our jobs and moved to a new town with nowhere to live and no job -totally worked out though). She accused us of child abuse because we sent our daughter to her room. We've had to kick her out of our house at times. She's a moron so she doesn't get it. So my advice (2 cents worth) is crack down on in laws they can cause a lot of trouble if their not put in their place immediately and you should have a very happy fruitful marriage and fight over money like everybody else. have kids and lots of em..good luck
chill... take it easy and truly enjoy every single minute!
Congrats, are you nervous? Well drink plenty of water tonight and do not take anything to make you pass out. It will cause bags under your eyes tomorrow. You want to look your best on your big day.


The night before my big day, I had a few shots with my sister. It helped take the edge off. But so much that I was wasted. I wanted to look good for my wedding. My inlaws love me, so they were VERY happy their son and I were getting married. It can be a little stressful knowing that tomorrow is the big day, when it was not that long ago you were starting to make arrangements. Just if anything, make sure you have a good time tomorrow. And again, congrats!
if you are getting married tomorrow, then you shouldn't be worrying about flowers anymore.
GOOD LUCK!! CONGRATS!!!





my boyfriend's brother is getting married tomorrow too!!!
Before I give my advice, I have to ask: why are you worried about flowers the day before the wedding? That should've been taken care of a while back!





Now, for my advice: since the wedding is tomorrow and there's really no room for asking if you have ';this and that'; done, I'll give the best three pointers for the ceremony:


1.) Don't fidget when you're standing up at the front of the room waiting on your bride. It makes you look that much more nervous and takes away from the magic of the moment.


2.) Whatever you do, DON'T LOCK YOUR KNEES! You're already nervous which has blood pumping through you fast enough to make you pass out already. Locking your knees will raise that probability! I'm not too sure why locking your knees makes you pass out, but it will so don't do it!


3.) The kiss. Make it long enough to be romantic and memorable, but short enough to keeps the ';oohs and ahhs'; at bay. You don't want to shove your tongue down her throat while Grandma is in the front row!





Well, that's about all I can think of for now! Have a great day tomorrow! Best wishes and good luck!
Ok, I'm not sure why you'd be asking about flowers if you're getting married tomorrow but here's my advice: Enjoy every moment. Don't let it pass by in a blur. Take a moment to pause, look around, look at your bride, and just memorize that moment. Look her deeply in the eyes when you're saying your vows. Try to make her laugh during a point and you'll never forget it. When you see her walking down the aisle, smile really big....she's been dreaming of that moment since the day you proposed so don't let her down. Don't see each other the day of the wedding. It makes the anticipation and seeing her as she walks down the aisle that much sweeter. Congratulations!
Get your hair cut.
Here麓s what our minister emphasized during our ceremony, and has really helped up A LOT. After you get in an argument, forget all about it. Don麓t bring it up, don麓t rehash the past. Put these things aside, and never discuss them again-WOW!!! This was powerful. Richard and I used to always relive our disagreements, and we don麓t anymore, and when one of starts to, the other reminds to not do it.





Best wishes to you-if you two are anything like us, we agree marriage is the GREATEST!!!
don't forget to EAT! also, don't forget the marriage license and the rings!





O, and remember to RELAX!
Take Jerry Hall's good marriage advice ';My mother said it was simple to keep a man; you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom';





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and ... dont forget to pray , ask forgiveness to the Lord , ask forgiveness what u have done wrong and dont forget to thank the Lord for he give you this moment and for the coming days , thank you lord for everything , and pray for your wedding and all the days that you have with your wife ,ask also his guideness throughout the years
Congratulations! :)

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