Getting married need advice!!?

I want two people to be my maid of honor but they totally hate each other. They are both very close to me and have been though alot with me and I can't choice just one.What do I do? Real answers please no rude ones thank you.Getting married need advice!!?
I would take them out or invite them over for a nice dinner and have them talk about what the deal is. I'm just throwing this out here and I may be wrong, but they may not even remember WHY they hated each other in the first place.





Tell them that you love them both dearly and that you really want them BOTH to be a part of your wedding because they are BOTH a part of your life. Then ask them to please put aside their differences with each other and help you plan your wedding.





And, let them know that after your wedding, they are free to hate each other once more. They may or may not be civil to each other during the planning, but be sure to tell them that you expect them to be on their best behavior and if they cannot be nice then they cannot be a part of your wedding.





Call it your ';No Drama Zone';





Good luck!Getting married need advice!!?
Just have them both. Tell each of them that you know they're not the best of friends, but if they could pretty please put their differences aside for this event, you would really appreciate it. I have friends that don't particularly love each other (understatement) but we're all adults %26amp; I know they wouldn't cause any drama if it was for me. And if I was asked to do that for a bride, I would certainly just go with it %26amp; cause no waves. However, if you know that one of them or both of them are going to be bratty or ghetto in any way towards each other then you'll have to make a decision. I can't really imagine being friends with someone who would act like that though. Best of luck with everything. I'm sure it will be fine.
First talk to them individually. find out what it is they dislike about each other. then with some unbiased help meet with them together. just lay it out for them. tell them you care for both of them and wish they could get along. you want both of them to be in your wedding and you will not choose one over the other how ever if they cant get along and not spoil your day then neither of them will be in your wedding, Period!! If they wont go along with this then just have a matron of honor. a mature married woman whom you respect and admire to take the place of these two. good luck.
Have them both. If one is married you can have a Maid and Matron of Honor. Having two Maids of Honor is not unusual, and these two ladies will need to put aside their personal feelings about each other for a while.
I agree.. sit them both down and explain to them exactly the way you did here. For ONE day this is all about you..and if they are true friends, they should be able to put aside their differences for a little while.
Have them both and if they are your friends they will suck up their problems with each other for you, at least for the duration of the wedding planning and wedding!
well its your wedding


so they should try to short out their issues for your special day