Thursday, July 29, 2010

Does it bother you when people that have never been married or divorced give you advice in this category?

I could see how it could, but at the same time, a critical eye from outside the regular circle can be welcome. It is definitely not the same as someone who has never watched football commenting on the best Quarterback. We are all observers of human nature and everyone probably has friends/family and experiences with married/divorced people.Does it bother you when people that have never been married or divorced give you advice in this category?
Does it really matter ? People only going to take the advice they want to hear anyway . Been married and divorced twice so i have plenty of experience but who's to say that someone who has never been married wouldn't have good advice from watching others go through marriage and divorce . What i think is funny is when people say seek counseling .What kind of answer is that ? They wouldn't be in here asking if they wanted to pay a counselor. I think its counselors looking for work lol.Does it bother you when people that have never been married or divorced give you advice in this category?
Yes, it does. Kind of like an electrician telling a plumber how to do his job!


But what bothers me even more that people respond so rudely and often nasty to the questions here. Some people genuinely NEED help and they think this is a good place to get responses and advise. Then when they ask a question, they're left to deal with the nasty and immature responses most give, all of which are against Yahoo Rules. I would guess at least 70% of most answers are that way....
Yes, I find it incredibly irritating.


It's almost as bad as people who are childless giving advice in the Parenting section.


And then there are those who do both. Never been married, never had kids, but act as founts of knowledge in ';Marriage and Divorce'; and ';Parenting';. Grrrrrr.
Well i never ask for advice on here but divorced people have experienced married life so they know what their talking about but people who have never been married have no clue about married life so they shouldn't be giving advice about something they dont know anything about.
Of course! I would hope that people at least have experienced or gone through it so they can fully understand.....





Sometimes we don't know if they have or not because people don't really give us their personal history, but you can usually tell when they have no clue.....
Yes, i am married and have more experience than they do. I'll read what they have to say and agree with them if they have a valid point but they should not expect to be taken seriously.
yes because they end of screwing up peoples heads because they really dont know what theyre talking about this is real life serious consequences people come on here for advice and some are influenced
it bothers me more that some people define marriage as a judge giving them permission.
it actually does, a little bit yeah
yes. I think it's better if the people who are answering at least have the experience of the topic.
Yeah it does, how the hell would they know.
Yes, it would but how would I find out one is not married/divorced?? I wouldn't.
no you should life your life as you want and don't bother what people will say or comment
no, and you should be smart enough to tell who is who
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