Thursday, July 29, 2010

Employment advice on impact of extramarrital affair of very married business executive?

I am being used as a decoy to hide a business exec ';real'; affair with another woman at my work. business exec is married with kids and is moving his office mistress to my group while i am being encouraged to leave voluntarily because he is taking responsibilities away from me. If i don't leave, then he is putting me in the ';candidates recommended for lay-off'; pool. HR supports mgmnt. this guy is an expat from japan...H E L P !!!Employment advice on impact of extramarrital affair of very married business executive?
Is it paid leave? Press for that - some form of compensation. Or a good severance package above and beyond the norm. Alternate strategy: Start looking for new work now, and let them put you in for lay-off (which may also have lucrative severance.) Just get out before they lay you off so you don't have to worry about the *hole giving you a bad recommendation in this case.





But move on.





Do you really want to be working for someone who'd do that? It would be nice to get justice, or compensation, but dollars to doughnuts you'd never be able to prove it in a court of law.





I wouldn't want to be in your shoes, but Good luck!Employment advice on impact of extramarrital affair of very married business executive?
It's going to be your opinion against his. He'll claim he's moving you for performance related reasons, or something along those lines. Plus, if HR supports him there's not much you can do internally.





If you don't want to get a lawyer consider this. If he's going to play hardball you can too. I'm sure his wife would be very interested in your information.
Getting legal advice would be an option. Many attorneys will give you a free consultation.

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