Need advice from married men?

What all does a man need from his wife to be TRUELY happy?


We have been together for 7 years but I am asking this because we have a 7 month old daughter together and I know I don't pay my husband as much attention since she was born. I don't want him to think I am ignoring him He is wonderful to me and I want to make sure I make him happy in every way possible. What is some nice things I can do for him that he will just love?Need advice from married men?
Sorry- I know you asked men this question and I am not a man but here is some advice:





If you are very busy with a young child and you do not have lots of time for your husband, this is understandable and most of us have been through this....make a point to go down on your man twice a week.....you will be a hero and he can't complain.....Need advice from married men?
dont give the child all your attention.....u know what he likes do it.
Remember what turned both of you on when you first met and keep that flame burning.
When we had our first child,i was in cloud nine and my wife got as much attention as the child as i know what she went through for nine months and during the delivery.





I guess a beautiful relationship includes acknowledging what the other half has done in/for the relationship amongst other things. I am sure he is not self centered to think you are ignoring him.
Kiss him a lot. Whenever you get a change, but especially for hello's and good-bye's!





Also, have sex.
its normal u give more attention 2 the newborn 4 now, but truly sex heals all, just give out more and he will be happy
Find a babysitter while he is at work and plan the whole evening for just the two of you. Make your plans thinking of just him, his wants. Then when the night is over take him home and give him a night to remember. Make sure he fells you really want him and you are not doing this out of obligation. Do not pick daughter up until the next morning.
Be the best mother you can to your daughter and do things all together, so as to have some time with the daughter as a family. It would also be nice if the odd time you surprised him by perhaps getting in a sitter for the child and just the two of you go out on a date like you did years ago. Most mature men know that once a child is part of the family that the majority of the attention is going to go towards the new addition. Talk things over with him also and let him know verbally that you are still in love with him and proud to be his mate and life partner. Best of luck to the family.
Don't ask a ton of questions early in the morning, don't always let him initiate sex, and make him a sandwhich from time to time.





Oh, and back rubs are the best.
take him to a sporting event like a basketball game or football game and try to be interested. do some research on the sport so you know what's going on in a game to prevent asking dumb questions all the way through....and as someone else mentioned. SEX. Good luck.
Wake him up with a blo job.
When it comes to dividing the attention between your husband and a child, you are walking a very intricate line. Naturally, the children always come first. However, when a child is crying just to be crying and you know this, then it is your responsibility to not give in. Let the child develop a little independence. While most guys will say sex, there is much more to it than just that. It is walking up behind him and putting your arms around him. Sneaking a kiss on the cheek while he isn't looking. Laying your head on his shoulder while watching television. A man wants to be shown the same affection that a woman shows a child, but in an adult way. It should be your way of letting him know that he has not been replaced.
Be a great mother, but don't put he kid ahead of your relationship with your husband......





Yes, we men are adults and should / can take care of ourselves, but too many women completely neglect their husband after the baby comes into the picture.





Second - have sex with him as often as possible. And no, stating that you WANT to have sex, but are too tired because of the baby (or any other reason) is NOT the same.





Men are physical love creatures. Unlike a woman, you CAN ingore us all day, but give us a great sack session and we will feel as loved as if you were wth us all day long, doing whatever we wanted.





I can't explain WHY this is true - but it is. So use it to your advantage.
just make him feel wanted, put little notes in his lunch or where ever.
Valerie is right, wear some hot looking lingerie and go down on him at least once a week. My wife never takes the initiative to do that to me and it's starting to get old. When a husband sees his wife constantly in Mommy Mode, it takes some extra work to get the husband to see her in sexy mode again. Be a lady in the streets and a whore in the sheets.
when the baby is sleeping show him some loving and talk to him
Treat him like you did before your daughter was born. He's the same man and you're the same woman.
The worst thing to do IMO is put the child first. You are married to the husband, the child will appreciate a mother and father that are devoted to each other.





If not you will have a whinny child and a big ole wedge between you and your husband.





Oh yeah, take the baby out of the room especially if the baby sleeps between you.
You know that! Pay attention when he needs you! i mean make sure he wont get lonely..
Food %26amp; Sex. That will make him more than happy.





Valerie- Thats a very good statement. I agree 100%/ I give my guy head about 4-5x a week (weve been together for 2 yrs) and he absoluley LOVES me...lol
No joke: Make love. All the gifts in the world are NOTHING compared to when your wife comes to you. In most relationships the husband is the one doing the persuing, it's in our nature. So, when the shoe is on the other foot, it brings back a little bit of the excitement. That's all you really need to do. It's sad, but us men are really that simple.
Give him sex untill he can't stand it, for starters and you dont even have to give an academey awards performance, just act like you like it at least.
have sex with him oftenly
The circumstances don't matter. Take an honest look at all the married couples you know are any of them still in love?!?!? NO and most of them are miserable. We all lie to ourselves and play the role even though we are not happy.
Make him dinner, and have great sex with him.